Thursday, December 10, 2009

Just the hoss-a-pit-al....

Have you completely given up on me? I hope not. And I sure hope my sweet Ainsley doesn't feel unloved since I've not posted for so long. What a crazy month we've had! More on that later...let's get on with things.
Even though I really wanted to go into labor on my own, and spent several days trying everything I could think of within reason to do so, we decided to go ahead with an induction on November 5, 2009, when I was 39 weeks. My growth check ultrasound had her measuring pretty big and while we figured it was just margin of error, I just have this fear of having a really big baby. Silly I know...
We were delighted to find out the hospital would be ready for us at 7am, which meant we didn't have to wait all day for a bed. We got settled and got started on pitocin about 8am - I was already 3cm dilated which was encouraging for the journey ahead. My contractions were coming regularly by the time Dr. Nett broke my water around 9am and then I was already 4cm! I labored on my own for awhile before deciding epidurals are awesome and pain is not. Maybe someday I will go into labor on my own, without pitocin, and will get to be out of the bed and try the whole natural childbirth thing. Until then, anesthesiology is my friend....(though I won't comment on my anesthesiologists this time around. They left a little to be desired). Got my epidural around 11:30 and was able to get some rest. It was amazing how much different the rest was from my first labor. With Sadie Beth, I didn't feel a thing. My epidural was AMAZING. This time, not so much. Around 2pm, I was feeling ridiculous amounts of pressure and told the nurse that I either needed more drugs or was going to have to start pushing. Since I was only 8cm, I got more drugs. I can't remember what time exactly I started pushing, but I know that didn't last for long. My doctor happened to be in the room and told me to push for a few contractions just to see how far that would take me before she got all ready. So, I started to push and before the first contraction was over she said, "Stop pushing, I need a gown!" One or two contractions later we had a baby! Ainsley sure didn't waste her time!
On a very serious side note....we are so incredibly thankful for a healthy pregnancy, baby, and delivery without any complications. I didn't find out the details until afterwards, but after I pushed through a contraction or two, my dr. said urgently, "You aren't having a contraction right now, but PUSH." While I did just that, basically my doctor reached up and pulled her out. Thankfully I wasn't aware enough to panic at the time, but the cord was wrapped around our girl's neck twice and she wasn't handling it so well as I pushed. God was so gracious to us to protect our sweet baby throughout the pregnancy and delivery.
So, that's the scoop....on with the fun part! You see that look on Ainsley's face? It basically hasn't left since. Not the crying, but the scowl. She came out with a scowl and pretty much scowled through the first month of her life. She is the sweetest, cuddliest thing in the world and heart melts every time I look into her big dark eyes - and she's done it all with her little eyebrows furrowed like she wonders why we evicted her from her cozy little home.
7 lbs, 13 oz....just a few more than Sadie Beth (7lbs, 9oz). Silly ultrasound estimates....
More grumpy scowls....but still soo soo sweet.
Daddy loves his girls....
I wanted a picture so I could remember the details...my nurses were AWESOME this time around. Very attentive and on top of things...
I loved that Suburban let us spend so much time in the delivery room after Ainsley was born. At Baptist we were so hurried and that was really frustrating. Here we got 2 hours of time for just David, Ainsley and I to be together. The nurses really just let us be and it was a very special time.
Here's a bunch of our sweet girl...Note the constant grumpy face. Or maybe she's just very analytical and has a lot to think about?

Our first night at the hospital was a piece of cake, but not so much the second night as so often is the case. After being up a really really long time, David finally took over and let me get some rest. This was the cute picture I woke up to a couple hours later! :)
My girls both had the biggest, darkest eyes when they were born.

I could just snuggle her all day long....seriously.
And what babies cheeks aren't endlessly kissable?
Ainsley, your Mama and Daddy love you so much. Know you were prayed for and eagerly anticipated. We can't wait to learn all about you and watch you grow. You've got a big sister who was so excited to meet you she hardly could stand it!
So that was the "hoss-a-pit-al." (According to Sadie Beth, this is where Mommy was going to get Baby Ainsley.) Sadie Beth had such a great time with Grammy while we were gone and was so excited when we got home. Unfortunately, we don't really have pictures of their first meeting because we decided to video tape it instead. Every once in awhile, Sadie Beth will say, "No more baby in Mommy's tummy. Ainsley come out." Guess she just has to make sure.

Friday, November 6, 2009

Ainsley Christianna Balzer!

She's finally here! Mom and Baby are doing very well (though missing Sadie Beth immensely). 11/05/2009 4:33 pm
7lbs 13.4 oz
20 inches













Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Getting ready...catching up!

One last catch-up post before baby sister arrives! We are so excited to meet our new sweet baby girl. But until then, here are some pictures of what our sweet Sadie Beth has been up to lately...probably not a lot to say about some...enjoy!
She likes wearing Daddy's work glasses...
...and Mommy's pajamas....
I'm not sure that there are many things in life more fun than listening to a 2 year old play...I'm loving hearing the things Sadie Beth comes up with these days. She told me when I found this that she was making oatmeal for her ducks....of course she was! :)
David was volunteered to be a pirate at work for some team-building activity. Sadie Beth enjoyed his costume....more than he did anyway.
And what is a pirate without her handy turtle-sidekick?

Sadie Beth has become quite the "helper" lately...she loves it and we love the opportunities we have to teach her the value of work and about having a sense of accomplishment. I guess here she decided she had accomplished enough and was done helping me change the bed.

Playing in the tub with her letters, a new favorite!
My poor red-faced girl was sick and running a pretty high fever....
Cheese-boo! Still one of Sadie Beth's favorite games - I think because she knows she came up with it. Doesn't she look so big! This part is where she says, "CHEESE!"
And then it's "Boo!"
We had a beautiful Sunday afternoon not too long ago and enjoyed a stop at the park after church.
She was particularly excited because Daddy got to be at the park too! And he is much more fun than Mommy.
It has been lots of fun watching Sadie Beth gain confidence at the park. At the beginning of the summer she wouldn't go down any slide by herself and practically had to be pushed even with someone to catch her....
Now she will go down every slide on this playground - even the curly slide!
Someone has become quite the daddy's girl over the last few weeks. I think it started while I was in Indy for the weekend. Sadie Beth adores David....I think the feeling is mutual.
Big girl bed!!!!!!!! Sadie Beth did really well transitioning into her new big girl room. We had a few rough nights, but I've been so proud of her.
I'm so thankful we were able to get the bedding and sheets that I fell in love with. I need to post better pictures, but her room is adorable and she is so proud of it. God provided so amazingly - the bedding was too expensive new, but I found it used on Craigslist for a ridiculously low price!
Sleeping for the first time in her bed. She fell asleep no problem! She remembered that Olivia the pig sleeps in a big girl bed and that was about all it took...we loves Olivia.
Cheese-boo on Sunday morning in a new dress. She thinks she's hilarious.
Very proud of her new "monster jamas." And of putting her shoes on all by herself!
While I was in Indy, David took Sadie Beth to a fall festival at a nearby church. It was a super-fun "daddy-daughter day" and Sadie Beth still loves her little pumpkin and talks about her butterfly cheek. Last weekend she told David, "I want...I need....Daddy-daughter day." He asked her when she wanted to do that and she said, "Right now." My sweet girl.
For Halloween Sadie Beth dressed up as a "lalalalala - LADYBUG!!!" We had fun dressing up. She got spoiled rotten trick-or-treating at my mom's work. I took her just so mom could see her in her costume and all of mom's friends had goodies for her - they were so sweet to do that. And Sadie Beth loved it. She's still telling people, "I trick or treat Grammy's work!"
Last Wednesday we also had fun at our church's fall festival. You know you are really pregnant when you are walking up a flight of stairs, a lady stops and looks you up and down, and says, "oh...ooohhh....wow." Yes, this definitely happened at the fall festival. I wasn't sure how to respond.

Our little ladybug loved the bounce houses - she would have spent the whole night in there if we'd let her....who needs candy when you can bounce!?!
And let's not forget trick or treating Saturday night. :) Sadie Beth got so excited about going from house to house. We probably only went to 10 houses, but she loved pointing to a house and saying, "I go to that one!" I think she picked the houses she thought would have dogs.
One morning not too long ago I found her sitting like this....I guess she decided her puppy was due for a hair-brushing. :) She is so excited about meeting her little sister...as are we of course. I'm not naive enough to think it's all going to be perfect, but she is ready!

Thursday, October 22, 2009

A girl & her BBQ - fun times!

A couple of weeks ago my mom brought over some pulled pork BBQ. The way Sadie Beth enjoyed it, she probably thought, "Why have you been holding out on me for so long?!?" :) Apparently, it's a winner.
Yes, most meals at our house do involve a shirt-less Sadie Beth. Saves money on SHOUT....btw - SHOUT advanced (in the blue bottle) is pretty amazing. I highly recommend it.
Too bad I didn't make it. I don't know that she ever gets this excited over my food.
Though I did make some pretty awesome cheesy potatoes with it that didn't last long on her plate. What a silly bug!